In numerology meanings, your birth date meaning can be quite influencial. However, do not fall in the trap to think that you’re just the way the chart describes you, because any personality has the opportunity to develop and grow. Accepting who you are is a great first step, and for me the numerology meanings of my name and birthdate really helped to see me the way I am. Now I’m at the next step: accepting that those strong and weak points are in my character, and that it’s up to me to enhance the strong points and to allow a transformation on the weak points.
I have discovered that knowing my flaws and my strengths helps me to focus on what I want to improve. First of all in myself, and then the changes do seep through in my relationships. The fun part of it is, that it is fast! I started seeing changes already within a couple of days, and that did stimulate me to dive in even deeper into the numerology meanings and the subsequent changes and to trust the process.
On the site of The Numerologist, and even more in his e-mails, I found countless clues as to how I was destroying my own happiness and my relationship. For example, I discovered that I have an awful lot of 2′s in my numerology meanings chart, and my partner has loads of 5′s in his. Which means, that it is almost impossible for me not to give him the feeling that I’m smothering him. For me, not living my love&connecion (2) side, feels like emptiness and an emotional desert. To him, not living his freedom and independence (5) feels like being smothered and curtailed!
We did talk about it, and even though we haven’t solved it yet, we now know where the basic lack of balance comes from in our relationship. If we don’t manage to stay together, at least we know what was the cause of our lack of compatibility, and we can choose wiser next time. Remember, you only need a date of birth and the full birth name to check out someones numerology chart, so it is actually much more accessible than a full astrological report!
On the website of The Numerologist, you can straight away get your first numerology meanings charts done. The good thing about it is, that Blair teaches you how to do numerology charts – instead of just doing them for you. It means that I’m now actually making money doing charts for interested people, and helping them with the interpretation as well – and giving them clues as how to apply the new knowledge to improve their lives.
How do you calculate your Numerology meanings birth date number? It is also called the Personality number, the Character number or the Day of the month number. It is correlated with your Life Path number (which is calculated from your date of birth).
Your Day of the month number, reveals your characteristic behaviors and character traits, and thus it will soften negative aspects of
your life path number or re-enforce them.
An example is my own numerology meanings chart: My Day of the month number is 21; which means I can be energetic and easygoing, with a lot of charismat. I’m good at talking with people, and I’m highly versatile. On the negative side I suffer from having a scattered focus, I can be very restless, I have a high sensitivity and I can even be unreliable. And then I’m not mentioning the fact that I can talk so well that people don’t even believe me anymore LOL.
To calculate our date of the month number, simply take the digit that refers to the day you were born. For instance, if I were born on June 7, 1960, my Day of the Month number is 7.
Here is a list of the dominant personality traits that are revealed by your birth date number.
1
Positive Traits: determination, self-confidence, will power, dignity, and originality
Negative Traits: stubbornness, willfulness, over-sensitivity, arrogance, lack of foresight
2
Positive Traits: empathetic, compassionate, intuitive, loving, understanding
Negative Traits: insecurity, nervous, self-conscious, needy, moody
3
Positive Traits: adaptable, resilient, charismatic, communicative, persuasive
Negative Traits: cynicism, irresponsibility, superficiality, overbearing, promiscuity
4
Positive Traits: organized, perceptive, disciplined, balanced, just
Negative Traits: obsessive, compulsive, tyrannical, demanding, incommunicative
5
Positive Traits: cooperative, versatile, curious, clever, and analytical
Negative Traits: flippancy, sarcastic, restless, irresponsibility, passive-aggressive
6
Positive Traits: kind, generous, honest, trustworthy, responsible
Negative Traits: manipulative, a gossip, presumptive, codependency, controlling
7
Positive Traits: intelligent, ethical, analytical, photographic memory, intuitive
Negative Traits: overly introverted, eccentric, uncommunicative, selfishness, cynicism
8
Positive Traits: pragmatism, optimism, idealism, stamina, good judgement
Negative Traits: greed, obsessive, careless, controlling, thoughtless
9
Positive traits: tolerant, compassionate, idealistic, sensitive, sympathetic
Negative Traits: bad judgement, immorality, delusional, arrogance, bitterness
10
Positive Traits: proactive, positive attitude, energetic, ability, originality
Negative Traits: hasty, sloppy, bossy, ingratitude, overbearing
11
Positive Traits: imaginative, idealistic, persuasive, spiritual, intuitive
Negative Traits: procrastination, sloth, sarcastic, laziness, temperamental
12
Positive Traits: energetic, enthusiastic, generous, charismatic, visionary
Negative Traits: selfishness, unfocused, impracticality, irresponsibility, fanatical
13
Positive Traits: sincerity, honesty, determination, stamina, detailed
Negative Traits: workaholic, repression, resentful, intolerance, compulsive
14
Positive Traits: cooperative, versatile, organized, analytical, curious
Negative Traits: impatience, restlessness, rebellious, irresponsible, breaking promises
15
Positive Traits: nurturing, domestic, understanding, artistic, and generous
Negative Traits: codependency, resistance to change, stubborn, manipulative, needy
16
Positive Traits: technically brilliant, innovative, creative, analytical, original
Negative Traits: emotional repression, misanthropy, irrational, cynicism, coldness
17
Positive Traits: optimistic, organized, pragmatic, shrewd, good business sense
Negative Traits: lack of follow through, shallow, self-conscious, materialistic, greedy
18
Positive Traits: creative, humanitarian, philanthropic, generous, broad-minded
Negative Traits: drama queen, codependency, martyr complex, fickle, low-self-esteem
19
Positive Traits: leadership, self-confidence, charisma, vitality, and enthusiasm
Negative Traits: arrogance, selfishness, over-confidence, flippancy, rebellious
20
Positive Traits: humorous, sympathetic, charming, affectionate, imaginative
Negative Traits: sarcasm, self-pity, critical, unrealistic, irrational expectation
21
Positive Traits: versatile, energetic, easygoing, charismatic, good conversationalist
Negative Traits: scattered focus, restlessness, overly sensitive, glib, unreliability
22
Positive Traits: idealism, pragmatism, creativity, ingenuity, and intuition
Negative Traits: rigidity, nervousness, workaholic, stubborn, fanatical
23
Positive Traits: charm, wit, charisma, inquisitiveness, persuasive
Negative Traits: restlessness, impatience, easily bored, shallow, disloyalty
24
Positive Traits: diplomacy, team-player, affection, just, loving
Negative Traits: self-pity, obsessive, workaholic, smothering, fearful
25
Positive Traits: logical, intuitive, rational, responsible, perfectionist
Negative traits: inflexibility, paranoia, introversion, misanthropy, obsessive
26
Positive Traits: sociable, cooperative, charming, efficient, ambitious
Negative Traits: manipulative, shallow, materialistic, greedy, exaggerates things
27
Positive Traits: humanistic, philosophical, broadminded, tolerant, and generous
Negative traits: nervous, linear thinker easily frustrated, stubborn, fanatical
28
Positive Traits: a leader, will power, self-confidence, originality, and stamina
Negative Traits: cold, unfeeling, workaholic, domineering, obsessive
29
Positive Traits: idealistic, creative, intuitive, analytic, a “people person”
Negative Traits: lack of follow through, pessimism, self-indulgent, unrealistic, impractical.
30
Positive Traits: charisma, wit, mimicry, writing ability, expressiveness
Negative Traits: self-centered, drama queen, lack of focus, dreaminess, laziness
31
Positive Traits: energetic, dependable, reliable, perceptive, detail oriented
Negative Traits: unimaginative, overly serious, over- sensitivity, insecurity, compulsive
(Source: Numerologist.com)
I do suggest that you get your own free numerology reading by filling in your name and email adress in the box on the top left of this website. It is worth it, I can tell you. I did, and you’re now taking advantage of all the wisdom that Blair freely shares without any charge. Do it now, and thank me in the comment box below!
